ok im 15. yeah i know im YOUNG!! but i had sex wit my boyfren who is 16. i told hem im pregnat and he wants me 2 keep dah baby. i told hem i didnt want 2 at 1st until he said something dat changd my mind: he said we kno wat we were doin so y wuld yu kill da baby?..dah baby didnt tell yu 2 have dem so its not their fault. so now im keepin my baby. but the thing is i dont want 2 b at home. i dont want 2 deal wit da madness and frustration and everything! i live in memphis tennessee and i wantd 2 kno are there any schools just for pregnant teens? and are there any group homes or anything for pregnant teens?? PLEASE i really want and need 2 know!! any info is good info! ALSO, could yu give me sum info on wat 2 expect 4 being a young mom!! ok ppl i know how 2 spell. its called ebonics if yu didnt kno!! i type lyk dis bkuz im use 2 txtin alot and i can type alot n a short amount of time...so yu dnt hav 2 say anythn about it kuz dats not really da situation. IF YU DNT HAV ANYTHN GOOD 2 SAY...DEN Y POST A COMMENT??
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Use www.google.com and look it up online.
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wow, just stay in school and learn to write, good for you for keeping the baby, and most areas have schools check into your local areas. call or go to a planned parenthood they will help you
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I don't know what to tell you sweetie only because I don't know that area, but stay in school so you can learn how to spell.
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I applaud you for taking responsibility in your pregnancy but by the way you have asked for someone to find something you yourself can do shows you have alot of growing up to do. You need to get to a free clinic in your town and talk with them about the options and places that would be available to you. No one can really tell you anything about Tennessee unless they themselves live there and have been in your boat. I would try to get on Medicaid and WIC but since you are a minor you would have to have your parents help you in this. I know you have the father in the picture but you are not married and sounds like there is no financial income coming into the relationship that would support the child. You need to be the one to look around, this was your responsibility and now you have to work alot harder if you plan on being a young mother. If your boyfriend doesn't want you to terminate the baby, there is always adoption. Open adoption allows you to communicate with the child through the years. If you don't think you are ready for the unconditional commitment then adoption would be a great choice. Best of Luck to You.
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(First it is really hard to read your post - future reference, it's good to type properly) There will be madness and frustration with having a baby at your age no matter where you go. If your current situation at home is not good, it might be better for you to look into going to another relative or a friend's to stay until things cool off or until your child is born. Your local hospital is the best place to start as far as looking for information on group homes or schooling. There are alot of wonderful sites for young mothers-to-be online as well, babygaga.com, pregnantteenhelp.org, and babycenter.com are just a few. Memphis is quite large, so you should have no problems getting the information and care you need. Best of luck to you and your baby!!!!
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If you can't or won't have an abortion, consider adoption. You are way to young to be a parent! Now, don't think I'm being mean. I was only 19 when I had my first child, so I know how hard it is when you're young and not financially or emotionally prepared. However, those four years are crucial. I was an adult and fully took on adult responsibilities for myself and my child. At 15, you still need someone to take care of YOU!
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i think google can help u find a school for pregnant girls.we have one where i live.those girls are not techniquly dropping out they just don't want to be looked down on so they have alo of people to relate 2 and still there high skool diplomas.i'm a young expecting mother 2.it's definetly a emotional roller coaster but i woul'nt change it if i could.my little angel is the reason i do everything i do.i'm 17 and 37 weeks prego.i don't have much longer 2 go.and yea iknow it's going 2 b hard but i have the support of my friends,family and the father of my child.don't worry u will be a great mom just hang in there it will be over b4 u know it.good luck!
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to be truthful with you i got pregnant when i was 14 and i wasnt going to keep the baby either but i thought about it like this the baby didnt ask to be brought into this world that was the mistake that i made.....but she is such a blessing and joy into my life....the baby father was around in the beginning the he did a m.i.a on me came back and stood up and took care of his responsibility........but as far as you wanting to leave home because of all the things that your going to have to go throught with your parents its not worth it because they are the only ones thats going to stand by you when ever anything happens with you or your baby....plus you dont want to have your child in thst type on enviorment with all types of people being around you and your child so just stick in there and trust me everything goings to be okay....plus 2 years later me an my baby is doing pretty good
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Call Birthright they have so many resources for you and your baby 1-800-550-4900 God Bless congrats on the baby.
